I apologize if you feel like this thread is stepping all over your efforts, Jessamine. It's not my intent. However I'm going to point this out about your soapbox. It sounds ironically judgmental for someone complaining about being judgmental. I'm not sure you meant for it to sound this way, but it definitely came off a little hypocritical.
Also, if you think it's discouraging for people to speak against another's very real experiences, consider this for a moment. You've just wrote several paragraphs effectively telling people who struggled to find RP (because they genuinely wanted to RP) that they just were't trying at all, that they are wrong, and it's just them. That completely invalidates their experiences and effort. If it occurred to you to try to reach out to find RP, assume it occurred to someone else. Congratulations you too have now joined the discouraging train.
I don't fault you for your base argument and I don't doubt your experiences. It may well be working for you, and good for you, but the way you made your argument undermined your point a little. Nevertheless, I'll just assume you meant well, and that it just might have come out a bit funny late at night.
Now to address the topic at hand: I'm glad PS is able to work for your enjoyment and I'm glad you were happy with the turnout of you events. However, I've been in healthy RP communities and even in PS when it was healthier. You seem new to RP so you may not see it yet, but PS is not fine, exceedingly alive, or healthy. It may be a lot for you, but I've seen more in games that aren't even well suited to RP and certainly more in PS, across timezones. I'm not new to RP. I started RPing in this game back in 2006-7. I know you don't trust my experience on this, but I've already seen pitfalls you apparently haven't encountered yet.
I agree the game isn't dead, but there is no spinning this as healthy and self-sustaining. Your market example proves that. Your description doesn't make it sound like an active market. It makes it sound like one person pushing to make it work. That's not sustainable. I know... we've tried it before. You will burnout like me and countless others who did the same thing did. You are going to need more than people RPing with you when you make a push. You need several people pushing at the same time help to make something sustainable.
I have not encountered one
active RP scene that doesn't have at least one cohesive community in it and forums have traditionally be the springboard for such communities in this game. I've seen people be so persnickety about their immersion that they cut themselves out of resources that help build RP. I'm not saying it's wrong to be that way, but it makes it hard build community. There simply aren't enough people in game to have an entirely in game network. Further, there isn't enough people to sustain having a majority of people who can't stand to do anything but the game. The RP community is just too weak. You need more people forming a community both inside and outside of the game.
I will say this, though, I'm pretty sure that given time you too will be repeating these same complaints. In the past, people used to shoot down my threads because it was "OK enough" for them when it was not for others. I found that those people eventually got to the point where they weren't satisfied too. Strangely enough, what I always complain about is a trend not just my isolated experiences. That trend eventually grows beyond any dissenters' tolerances too.
Those people who took much the same position as you, Jessamine, eventually started to say the same things I had for their own reasons. So forgive me if I don't take your zeal as indicator that things are alright enough. I've just seen this pattern enough times to know that if you hang around long enough, you will see it, and you will voice the exact same concerns. I'm not trying to take shots at the fact that you are enjoying yourself now, but I've seen all of this play out before.
Not to mention, this is the same behavior that interfered with rallying the community
before the peak dropped down to 30. That is nowhere near the online peak of 200
in game. The game has done so much better than this with so much less. That's
not a sign that it's OK.
What is annoying is the people that keep logging on just say "oh only 15 people online?" blah blah blah....if you want more people to play and enjoy it and so many of us really do then stop complaining about it and just RP,
Now this takes me back right here.... Show of hands, how many people remember this argument being thrown around in the past? Did it help? Did it help? *looks around* No. But at least my PS nostalgia trip is now complete. If just RP was enough to fix the mess PS finds itself in, it would have worked all the other times someone thought to say it.