These forums are a lot better than they were before. If you don't notice that, it's because you never have read threads from the guild forums of olden. Our moderators are currently more active and competent and I say that because it is visible. Again, I speak of the Guild Forums... The rest of the forums are too boring for me to care. But I've also noticed less "I'm leaving because you suck" and "The community is rotten" threads, so that must mean it's a general change.
Obviously these and other touchy topics are bound to sprout from times to times, as people are never glad with what they have. And that's just fine with me, because it keeps that dynamic disagreement and rethorical dispute I so much enjoy!
It's normal that being nice helps everyone. But does this help actually pays up, or would we rather have fun or benefit from putting other people down?
Tuxide has claimed that we need to be nice to others. However I have seen him more than once put the DE down casually. In the end, I don't think we'll ever be nice to everyone or mean to everyone. We'll keep choosing the proportions as its best (more entertaining/useful) for us. Limits should be traced though. And as a related note, Tuxide's jokes are well within the limits.

Kiern, the forums moderators have an objective job and they do it. If the players do not appreciate it they should mention it to the authority capable of fixing it. If many players manifest themselves, than it should be fixed. If it's not, then people can either settle up with it or change game.
If only a couple of players are upset... Well, bad luck for them. Better them than the rest of us.