For the tl;dr people:- Mechanics can't do the work players have to do themsleves.
- Be mature and when other people aren't being mature, BE MATURE.
- Don't make the problem worse.
- Your immersion will be broken eventually, no matter what. Learn to ease the effect.
The only real solution is for the community to come together to work on case by case solutions and common ground. There is no shortcut, mechanics or otherwise.
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While you are absolutely right on several points Theorex, let me point out a few things before I get into how to deal with those issues. And remember around the third paragraph or so, when you are sick of reading this

, that proper explanations require full thoughts not just snippets. I'll try to shorten the thoughts where I can without loosing the meaning.
One, there simply aren't enough people for this to be a significant problem. I remember the godmodding, the trouble and the fussing, but now I don't really see it. Why? Because there aren't even enough people roleplaying at the same time to cause as much conflict. I'd like to say people got reasonable all at once but that's just not that likely. Rather than stiffle RP because we
might run into these issues again, at this current time, let's get started on expanding the RP and then we can worry about the problems that actually do arise.
Two, when I talk about RP and mechanics, I'm not advocating completely ignoring it. What I am advocating is not getting so tied to it that you can't RP anything until the devs implement it. Mechanics are incomplete, they break, they get cumbersome, they change... One way or another they will require you to make judgement calls anyway, so I'm asking people to be
less dependent on them. Not ignore them per se.
Ok, now into the actual issues. I have already traded things that didn't actually exist and it went fine. The problem there is not the way of trading it is the level of consideration the player shows to the other party. Since I gave "nothing", I took "nothing". Even though the amount of tria for my items were well below OOC market value, I still made it a point to try to be fair to the other player. I RPed the exchange of tria without taking any actual tria from them. All parties were satisfied and some even gave tria anyway because they in turn were trying to be considerate.
It is a matter of exercising a little sense. Someone that can't manage that much is just as likely to try to cheat you with an item that has a model and icon. Always consider how much you personally would be willing to give up in exchange when trading.Also, I guarantee you that mechanics or not, someone somewhere will always be offended by your actions. You can only do so much to prevent offense before you become unable to do anything. In a case like that, you should put yourself in the other person's place and think about what considerations you would want. You should actively work to come to an equitable arrangement with the other party. Beyond that there really isn't much else you can do.
For those unwilling to work with the other party to come to a fair result, forget them. No one is a mind reader and no one is the star of the show. Anyone that can't give a little to get a little is probably just going to cause trouble no matter what.
Godmodding___Now, about godmodding. There are often complaints about it, but let's be honest, it hasn't been a large issue since the player count dropped. Most of the power fantasy fiends have moved on and most of the people left are reasonable enough. Rather than assume everyone is going to go power mad, start RPing and deal with godmodding
if it comes up. I haven't had a problem with it for years. Even at the height of my belly aching it was rarely about outright godmodding.
NOTE: NONE OF THE FOLLOWING IS PERSONAL OR SPECIFIC TO ANY ONE PERSON OR GROUP. IT IS NOT AN ATTACK OR MEANT TO INSULT. IT IS A GENERAL COMMENTARY ON HOW TO DEAL WITH THESE PROBLEMS.Some ways to deal with the godmodding issue:
One, understand that godmodding actually happens often, in a sense, and no one cares. When someone grabs your shoulder without "trying" to, you have been godmodded, but in most cases it is a welcome way to get on with things. There is much complaint about godmodding, but it's isn't quite as evil as people generally portray it. The two actual problem areas are combat and your character's well being, so lets narrow the field down to that.
Oh, and just as a note, the following commentary does not relate to the mechanics, just to player action and reaction. It has been proven that players taking stupid, inconsiderate, or obnoxious actions cannot be stopped by mechanics. It will always be up to the community of players to manage these kind of things among themselves or at worst GM intervention(the closest thing to a sufficient mechanics response)...
When you are dealing with RP issues related to combat or whether or not another character can get hurt or killed,
TAKE EXTRA CARE TO BE CONSIDERATE AND TO COMMUNICATE. Did I emphasize that enough? Let me say that again. When you are dealing with combat or the well being of another character tip lightly. Since characters are usually close to people's heart, it doesn't take much to cause offense, hurt feelings, or unnecessary drama. Learn to work with the other person or no amount of mechanics is going to fix the mess that is just waiting to be made.
On the other side of the issue, if you are being godmodded,
DO NOT MAKE THE MATTER WORSE. Once more...
DO NOT ADD TO THE PROBLEM. There are ways to deal with that issue that won't make it blow up into a grand firestorm.
The key here is maturity on the player's part, whether the other person is mature or not. Remember that no one is a mind reader and that everyone can forget to think about how their actions will be interpeted. There is a chance that the other person did not godmod intentionally or they just didn't think they were godmodding.
When someone godmods you, the first thing to do is to
calmly and politely make it clear that you feel godmodded and that you don't want to go along with the action. You don't have to go along with things if you don't want to; this came up with that string of rape RPs awhile back. But, do consider why the other person might have wanted to take that action. It might not be as much of a godmod as you think.
Further, feeling godmodded is not a good reason to go into a rage or a whine. It can easily cause the other player to feel attacked, offended, or at least make them get defensive. That will most likely lead to them sending an angry salvo back, and cause the whole thing to escalate needlessly. Feeling justified is not automatically the go ahead to act out, but the first one to do it opens the door and then there will be several parties all feeling justified in insulting, harrassing, etc. the other party. It just becomes a mess, nothing good will come of it.
BE CALM when you respond. Try to clearly state what you have an issue with
without accusing people of all sorts of extra things that you assume was a part of the incident, like being unfair, meaning disrespect, trying to be a pain, being a bad RPer, etc. ... Keep it to what
actually happened, it will go better for everyone. If you try to work it out with a reasonable level of maturity it is more likely that you can come to an equitable solution.
Now, if the other person is for sure being an absolute jerk
DO NOT RESPOND THE SAME WAY. It makes the problem bigger, you then share responbility for the trouble that will follow, and nothing is solved. You can /ignore that person; you can just stop the RP altogether, sacrificing some immersion is better than fanning the flames; you can /report them; or you can make a petition. Just remember:
don't feed the troll.
Lastly, if for some reason doing these things to try to manage godmodding breaks your immersion and it is too much, then you might want to consider being an author instead of an RPer in an MMO. Having so many people possibly interacting with each other will make it frequently necessary to come to OOC arrangements, and there is really isn't a way around that that doesn't lead to drama at some point.
Immersion Instability____Simply put,
at any point this game could change and the settings and the mechanics to match could change or disappear. Ask the diaboli and the players that played them. You have to be ready at any moment to have to rewrite or rework some aspect of your RP anyway, so you shouldn't let the fact that you might get it wrong or that what you do might become wrong scare you out of RPing new things or RPing with others who might have a slightly different view...
If you RP long enough in this game, your immersion will get broken eventually, it comes with the package. The best thing to do there is to
be flexible and
learn how to make efforts to reconcile the break with any other involved parties.
For instance, someone comes up to you and they are a Ynnwn/Enki hybrid... break! Now you could get in a funk about it, you could refuse to RP ever again with that person, or you can do something constructive about it. Can your character ICly comment on how that breaks the settings? Can you send a polite tell explaining that a character of that nature is against settings? If people genuinely don't know any better, then someone needs to help them learn. If someone is deliberately being a pest and childishly wants to force everyone to play along then just don't indulge it.
This is another case of "be mature even if the other person is not". You can refuse to deal with the break by ignoring it, you can stop RPing with the person until they decide to be reasonable, Or you can make use of reports, petitions, and ignore if the break can be interpreted as harrassment.
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I think this covers the basics; but, overall, when you play this game you have to accept that
there is no way to completely police it, to prevent issues, or to always be completely comfortable in it. It's open to the world and that means anything can happen. All you can control is your own actions, but that is at least be enough to prevent large scale blow ups.