Okay I've been totally hesitant to post this..and I know you will all yell and scream and kick but it's how many have expressed to me how they feel and I guess I Got designated to post about it..I kinda feel it fits in here now pretty well..I do say I agree with Merede and Anumesa and Marsaynt all make really good points, so okay here goes...
[was originally going to post in the complaint department..but I feel it fits better here now..but still a compliant so I left this in:]
Okay I am starting this discussion, debated about putting it here or in general discussion, feel free to move it, but mainly it complaint to other players. I have had several other players comment to me on this issue so I have taken it upon myself to post about it here and see what you all think as well, and perhaps see why this is so.
Why do we spend hours upon hours training up our characters skills? I mean it seriously, you spend all that time...and then when someone else upsets your char or picks a fight. you decline. "I don't fight" "we are not a war guild" I have heard this SO many time. and I hate to say it...but if you have a name like "The Defenders of Hyldaa" [guild name changed for whatever reason] and you say that your not a guild that goes to war...umm you probably should rethink what your guild is all about or perhaps rename it. not so sure if the Peaceful defenders, would work, but worth a try. [I prefer "The Cowards...how come no one has started this guild? lol kidding]Anyways, I can't remember the last time in game, in char my char picked a fight, or pissed off someone and they actually accepted a challenge! it just does not happen anymore...its seems if someone want to fight they only want to RP it, and I tired this once...it did not really work, it was Godmode fest. The other char would not allow me to use the dice system to help, [which really does not always work well eaither but at least keeps it from two people blocking hits all day long ] but they also did not use actual spells in game, they made up spells which is frustrating because then there are no limits, what stops me from saying oh well a flying tree just did a triple flip off the ground and landed on your head. your dead. game over. But like I said I really did try to play this little game, however every one of my hits was blocked by other player, while I let hers penetrate my char, I soon realized this was pointless and we could go on for hours if not days, so I let them defeat me so I could move on. and the dice method is okay..but it also has its flaws, I mean if I spend a while training my sword skill and my opponent has none..why should we both roll the same number of dice? so that takes some planning. and as well as Marqsaynt said it clutters up the screen very quickly which is annoying..but unless you agree ooc first or something who is going to win I Think it's pretty hopeless to try without dice, cause usually I see it just goes on blocking and blocking until one gets too tired and bored of it and finally dies.
But my main complaint is why take so much time to train your char, only to decline duels?
As an outlaw (and I speak for myself here) I have taken it upon myself to always accept a duel if it is approached to me ic'ly. now if you just walk me and challenge without a word, I am a little hesitant, and there are times where I will rp out of it as well but for the most part anymore if you challenge me I am going to call you on it. I really want to know why if someone upsets you so that you wont take the challenge? or if you do something to upset my char and she wants to fight you, you still decline, but continue to upset my char. Its very frustrating to some of us when we put together a big event for out guild, such as a road block type deal, were we have a bunch of us standing in the tunnel blocking traffic, saying if your going to pass you have to pay 1 circle or give us something, or you die. as in we will kill you. and you guys, refuse to pay, and walk right though us as if we did not even stand there blocking your path, even tho you talk to us and such. Its not an unrealistic amount of tria either we are not asking for 30k or something..just a circle..and we are not mean, we do realize when someone is new, I am not even talking about them. it is very hard to play a bad guy at times with the game mechanics, especially now that it seems no one will accept a duel. Think about it, put yourself in my char's shoes, you do something to piss her off, she gets mad and wants to kick your butt, and you say no. and then sit there and act like nothing happened. its unrealistic.
What's the big fricking deal about fighting? about dying? oh yeah so you get a DP now...still big deal train up your will and carry a seduction weapon till it runs out and you can still move about. or don't be overloaded. or use this time to bug your friends in tells. I dunno. Or maybe stop upsetting other chars, only to decline.
It just seems as if something has happened recently and we have the hard core role-players or the power levelers. no in between. no wants to duel, they just want to train, train, train, or Role play. but not if that means fighting another char!
I know this is slightly off topic but I Think it kinda goes right along with it, thanks for taking the time to hear me out, now all I ask is that you don't flame me

and again I have had several people from several different guilds address me about most of these issues, so its' not all just me.